I think that we often question ourselves if we are good parents. We make some
decisions every day. We also hesitate how to grow up our children and how to
make them happy. We are afraid to develop our children’s characters.
School Educator (general ideas)
Mrs. M.A. Agnieszka Czerwińska has been the school educator for three years. She has graduated from The Philosophical College in Kraków, after diploma Theological and Pedagogical Therapy College and the qualification “ life in the family” course. She is always ready to help and advice teachers, pupils and their parents.
A child needs parents’ free time (general ideas)
One’s child needs desperately one’s parents’ time. Church, school or educational societies could not take the whole responsibility for bringing a child up. As the statistics, a Polishman spend about 150 minutes in front of TV ( on Sundays about 4 hours). In America a child till the age of 14 watches about 15 thousand of murders. How do we control and select what our children watch? Let’s try to choose the most valuable ones, go for a walk. Do not let bad weather to spoil your family plans.
It is good to play cards, puzzles, dominoes… In the educational process both parents are needed: a mother and a father.
Good parent- what is he/ she like?
I think that we often question ourselves if we are good parents. We make some
decisions every day. We also hesitate how to grow up our children and how to
make them happy. We are afraid to develop our children’s characters.
What does it mean „a good patent”? I do not know anyone who fullfill his parental duties perfectly. Everyone makes some mistakes. Despite this fact one can find many valuable, great, happy children in the world. I think that “perfect parents” do not exist. One should not blame him/herself that we do not always do right. But it means we have to try.
„Enough good patent” is the one who:
Ø can see his/her childrens’ needs and tries to fullfill them as good as possible,
Ø makes a child some borders, because the child needs them Chile growing up,
Ø is not too demending and does not overuse his/her power to a child because he/she respects the child.
Our children need guiders. Without them children feel confused and alone. Our children need love of their parents, safety, our strengh, respect to mummy and daddy.
We have to motivate our children. We have to know what our child is doing. We have to talk to them as often as possible.
I wish you all the best in being a good parent.
1. Do not give me everything I want.
2. Be consequent.
3. Do not let bad habits crippled in me.
4. Do not do in the way I feel smaller than I am .
5. Do not punish me being seen by others.
6. Let me feel all consequences.
7. Do not do in the way my mistakes are sins.
8. Do not bother to much when I say:”I hate you”. I hate only your power which destroys me.
9. Do not bother of my indispositions much. They draw your attention to me I need the most.
10. Do not say bla, bla. I will hear nothing.
11. Do not promise me anything if you do not fulfill it.
12. Do not forget I cannot say everything very clearly.
13. Do not exeggerate as for my honesty. It leads to telling lies.
14. Do not change your behaviour principles.
15. Answer if I ask.
16. Do not say my fear is stupid. It is real.
17. Do not say you are perfect. It is a shock for me.
18. Do not think your explanations humiliate you.
19. Do not forget I like doing experiments.
20. Do not forget I grow up quickly. It is hard to go with me- but try.
Welcome within the new school year! I want to invite you to the school educator site- you will find interesting articles and other materials which are to help in upbringing.I am ready to cooperate, answer questions. You can write :spjanowice@o2.pl adding „school educator”. I am going to read every message and write Best wishes!